There’s a shift that happens this time of year. Sometimes it’s subtle, sometimes it feels like someone has pulled the rug out from under you; and if you’re feeling it, your dog is definitely feeling it.

Longer days. Warmer air. The ground thawing and releasing months of trapped scent. New growth. Wildlife moving again. People out, doors open, life expanding in every direction.

To us, it feels refreshing.

To your dog, it feels like someone turned the volume of the world all the way up.

There’s a myth that still runs deep in the way we interpret dogs: that every lick is a sign of love. A kiss. A sweet gesture. That if your dog is licking you, it must mean they adore you.

But that’s not always true.

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“I’m tired of unraveling my fetch fanatic, bossy, controlling, resource-guarding Aussie Shepherd. It’s exhausting.”

That makes so much sense—and if you’re feeling this too, you’re far from alone. This messy, high-intensity dynamic is incredibly common in herding breeds (like Aussies, Border Collies, Heelers), but it also shows up in many other driven dogs, regardless of breed.

I have always had an interest in training dogs. This began in childhood, raising Border Collie puppies on my family’s cattle farm. I pursued a professional career in dog training when I moved to Asheville and acquired my second cattle dog, Sage. I thought I knew how to raise cattle dogs, but Sage was different from any of my other puppies and I was struggling with her high drive/arousal, prey drive, and assertiveness.

If you are reading this, chances are your dog is having a hard time being home alone and you are wondering if he has separation anxiety. On your dog’s behalf, I thank you for being attentive to what he is experiencing and hope that this blog post will answer some of your questions.